Пожалуй иногда такие отрезвляющие события нужны.
Просто в качестве напоминания.
И Ами очень права - you can always count on yourself only.

Treat people as you expect them to treat you, but do not believe they will actually treat you this way © Ami.

Распечатать и повесить на видном месте.
Expectations are disappointing.
Even more than people are.

Everything is fine.
I just took it too close to heart.
Overreacting. And that's it )